Thursday, December 10, 2009

The Santa Memories

Aaron figured out the truth about Santa when he was in kindergarten. It was Easter. Yes, my friends - you read that right - Easter. I was tucking him into bed, and he asked, "Mom, it's not really possible for a bunny to carry all those eggs and candy, is it?"
Now, a long time before I had promised myself that when my kids started asking questions, I wasn't going to lie. So, I asked "What do you think, Aaron - if a bunny isn't doing it, then who is?" His eyes got wide, as the truth dawned on him and he pointed my way and said "You are!" I smiled and nodded and winked at him and he giggled and I told him that now he was in on the secret and he could help keep the story going for his little sister. He loved being part of that.
Then, he cocked his head and said "What about Santa?"
Again, I asked, "What do you think, Aaron?"
He looked worried - really worried, and I wondered if he wasn't ready to hear this much yet. Then he said, "Mom, how can you afford toys for all the kids in the world?"
I had to set the record straight after I held in my laugh. (Aaron, buddy - hate to tell 'ya...I'm good...but I'm not THAT good!) It only made sense - I was his sister's preschool music teacher, (and was his previously), I had been their Sunday school teacher, and I volunteered in his classroom. I was the typical stay-at-home soccer mom! Why not deliver packages all over the world once a year - in a night? Ha!

We had tons of fun with keeping the Santa secret, too. Aaron gnawed carrots and threw them out in the snow one Christmas Eve, to trick his sister into believing the reindeer had a snack. (And almost won an award for "Best Over-Actor" when he feigned surprise -for about 10 minutes straight - the next morning...He went ON and ON and ON about the half-eaten carrots in the snow on the front lawn and how the only way they could have gotten there was hungry reindeer...)

When my parents moved to town, when both kids were still "believers", my dad came and put the gifts under our tree when we went out to a friends for an evening. My dad put his boots in our fireplace, and made ash boot prints on the hearth (a trick he once did for me as a child), and boy, were my kids excited to see that upon returning home!

The kids are older now, but we have lots of great memories! And, some day I know my kids will be sharing their stories with their children. We've made some great memories. The Santa memories are some of my favorites!

4 comments:

TAMMY said...

Sounds like you handled the Santa situation really well. Wish I'd been that wise! Glad you have some great memories to hold on to!

Helga said...

I agree with Tammy, you handled this Santa thing great! I was 6 when I found out the truth and I always regretted being nosey and bugging my Mamma about it. I want to believe like everyone else. I did help Mom when it came to my sister though.

Maura said...

Thanks for posting this! I think we are really close to B asking these questions and now I think I know what I'll say:) That is awesome he was able to keep it fun for his sister.

Laura said...

This post is so cute! How fun for your son to play along for his sister. I don't want my kids to ever stop believing but this made it a little better. :)

(Oh and we are in Somerset. Crazy!) :)